I believe that only you can help yourself. At least that holds true with me. If I need to find answers, it is within myself that I will... I am more sane and sensible than a million people I've met. I have reached a point of self realization where I honestly see myself, stripped of those innumerable excuses and compromises that one makes to accept a person.
I see what hurts me better and I see the solution better. I let the world hurt me. The world doesnt hurt me. I let it.
hey poornima....tat was a very nice piece of wisdom coming out frm (i guess)a very experienced sane soul..i totally agree with u tat i need to find my solutions myself...but again don u think these solutions shud be relativistic to the world..at least i feel so..though truly speaking i care a damn bout wat another soul thinks...but i cant fully exclude everyone...my dear ones mean a lot to me..and since they form a part of this so called world...i need to be in sync with the world.. though to some extent it means sacrifising my own feelings.........ooopsss do i sound philosophical..no.. im a lunatic...love typing gibberish...but hey thanx 4 responding...ya urdu is lovely...
Experienced? 'Experience is a hard teacher. She takes the test first and teaches the lesson later'- that just came to mind when I typed that word!
Sane? Lol! Yeah am not howling, raving insane.
I have people whom I love. But being in sync et al... it is seriously beyond me. Take me as I am. If you can, love me. If you cant, leave me. That's my philosophy(one of my) in life!
But dont you think that people who mean to you are people you love and who love you? And isn't love above all unconditional? So where is the problem then?
love being unconditional...ive heard a lot bout it but have found it only at one place....from my parents...guess they are the only ones who truly give u unconditional love....all other aspects of love tat ive experienced myself and seen happening round me are jus not unconditional...even ur saying "love me as i am"...aint tat conditional....it doesn leave me with much options....and hey bengali and french are two other beautiful languages....
love being unconditional...ive heard a lot bout it but have found it only at one place....from my parents...guess they are the only ones who truly give u unconditional love....all other aspects of love tat ive experienced myself and seen happening round me are jus not unconditional...even ur saying "love me as i am"...aint tat conditional....it doesn leave me with much options....and hey bengali and french are two other beautiful languages....
Parents and thier love being unconditional?! Lol- they love you coz you are thier son or daughter!!
Love me as I am is conditional? Wow! I didnt think on those lines and am not able to too...
Bengali and French are lovely? Do you know me?!!! I cant imagine anyone who doesn't know me coming and telling me the two languages that are top most on my love-list, are lovely!
well u c ...i needn know u to love FRENCH an BENGALI....is it a condition tat u lay down tat i shud get to know u to know bengali and french.....people around the globe love french and a few around india love bengali...so is it necessary tat they shud all love u and that too unconditionally?? well if its so then im ready...but then????
wow...dis discussion cud be a post in itself...bt i agree wid poornima..the answer to ones problems lies widin the person only..its all abt lookin in honestly n confronting it.
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But dont you think that only the world can inflict these wounds?
Keep writing...
hey poornima...u think so...but then u think theres another place where it can be healed?..if yes please do tell me...urs aks
I believe that only you can help yourself. At least that holds true with me. If I need to find answers, it is within myself that I will... I am more sane and sensible than a million people I've met. I have reached a point of self realization where I honestly see myself, stripped of those innumerable excuses and compromises that one makes to accept a person.
I see what hurts me better and I see the solution better. I let the world hurt me. The world doesnt hurt me. I let it.
hey poornima....tat was a very nice piece of wisdom coming out frm (i guess)a very experienced sane soul..i totally agree with u tat i need to find my solutions myself...but again don u think these solutions shud be relativistic to the world..at least i feel so..though truly speaking i care a damn bout wat another soul thinks...but i cant fully exclude everyone...my dear ones mean a lot to me..and since they form a part of this so called world...i need to be in sync with the world.. though to some extent it means sacrifising my own feelings.........ooopsss do i sound philosophical..no.. im a lunatic...love typing gibberish...but hey thanx 4 responding...ya urdu is lovely...
Experienced? 'Experience is a hard teacher. She takes the test first and teaches the lesson later'- that just came to mind when I typed that word!
Sane? Lol! Yeah am not howling, raving insane.
I have people whom I love. But being in sync et al... it is seriously beyond me. Take me as I am. If you can, love me. If you cant, leave me. That's my philosophy(one of my) in life!
But dont you think that people who mean to you are people you love and who love you? And isn't love above all unconditional? So where is the problem then?
Yeah- Urdu is lovely.
love being unconditional...ive heard a lot bout it but have found it only at one place....from my parents...guess they are the only ones who truly give u unconditional love....all other aspects of love tat ive experienced myself and seen happening round me are jus not unconditional...even ur saying "love me as i am"...aint tat conditional....it doesn leave me with much options....and hey bengali and french are two other beautiful languages....
love being unconditional...ive heard a lot bout it but have found it only at one place....from my parents...guess they are the only ones who truly give u unconditional love....all other aspects of love tat ive experienced myself and seen happening round me are jus not unconditional...even ur saying "love me as i am"...aint tat conditional....it doesn leave me with much options....and hey bengali and french are two other beautiful languages....
Parents and thier love being unconditional?! Lol- they love you coz you are thier son or daughter!!
Love me as I am is conditional? Wow! I didnt think on those lines and am not able to too...
Bengali and French are lovely? Do you know me?!!! I cant imagine anyone who doesn't know me coming and telling me the two languages that are top most on my love-list, are lovely!
well u c ...i needn know u to love FRENCH an BENGALI....is it a condition tat u lay down tat i shud get to know u to know bengali and french.....people around the globe love french and a few around india love bengali...so is it necessary tat they shud all love u and that too unconditionally?? well if its so then im ready...but then????
wow...dis discussion cud be a post in itself...bt i agree wid poornima..the answer to ones problems lies widin the person only..its all abt lookin in honestly n confronting it.
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